Married to a Narcissist-'Its not your Fault'

True story

I've been working with Alana for over two years. She had already written this amazing book below, and she's in the midst of writing a follow up. Alana also sees some of the issues with prominent athletes. Abuse from narcissistic partners can be quite difficult, not only being married to them but also trying to leave them. You may find that you resonate with the below. I don't take the word narcissism lightly. The word has been thrown around much too loosely in the past couple of years. Often my clients will say ‘my husband's a narcissist’ and I will look at their husband's chart and say ‘no he's not. He just has this issue and that issue.’ But when I truly see a narcissistic behaviour in an astrology chart, It's quite obvious!

I thought I would share my clients book with her approval, because I believe it will help many of you make the choices before, during and after a separation from a narcissist. By the way, I know two women aren't the narcissistic one in the marriage. So it's not just about men!

Was it My Fault? will take you on an emotional rollercoaster while inspiring you towards self-discovery and healing - perfect for those looking for an uplifting memoir that addresses important social issues.

This full color book narrates the transition of a beautiful romance turned toxic and the steps the author took for the safety of her children. The story delves into the depths of deceit, manipulation and emotional and physical harm toxic people impose on the ones they love including their own children. The author provides resources at the end of the book for people seeking guidance on how to safely leave a toxic relationship, rebuild their lives and heal.

Love does not control.

Love is not cruel or manipulative.

Love does not break your spirit.

‘Why didn’t you leave?’ is a question often posed to victims, without realizing that it’s much easier said than done. For Alana, sixteen years in an emotionally and psychologically abusive relationship left her unrecognizable to herself. Once a strong, independent, and ambitious woman, she had become a shattered, disheveled shell of a human being. Only after enduring years of torment and raising three children in the midst of chaos could she summon the courage to reclaim her power and make the life-altering decision to leave.

This memoir is her story.

Taking readers on an emotional rollercoaster of real-life events, Alana navigates coercive control, emotional manipulation, and post-separation abuse. With unwavering honesty, she lays bare the intricacies of abuse dynamics, punctuating her narrative with psychological insights and red flags to empower others to recognize the signs. This book is a lifeline for survivors, a beacon of awareness for family and friends to support loved ones, and a roadmap for those caught in toxic relationships to reclaim autonomy and flourish beyond the trauma.

Was it My Fault? is intended to offer solace and guidance to those ensnared in toxic relationships, dispelling the notion that abuse is solely physical. Inspiring self-discovery, healing, and empowerment, Alana offers a testament to the resilience of the human spirit, a rallying cry for survivors to reclaim their narrative – urging them not just to survive, but to thrive