Why is my Child so Defiant!

Because your child is a CHOSEN ONE.

I have done hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of astrology readings for children. Honestly, it is my favorite reading of all, reading children and their souls. If you have not had a reading about your child I highly recommend one ASAP! It does not matter how old they are, even if they're full-fledged adults. My 15 minutes readings are enough if you are interested.

There is a common theme with children born from 1995 onward. They do not like authority. They're difficult to discipline. They will not allow you or anyone to be the boss of them! They seem to be very grown-up, and mature for their age. They do not like school. They appreciate the social life, they simply don't like the system. Not every child is a Chosen CHILD, however many children are The Chosen Ones, whom are born in this era.

Those that are not, are here to follow the lead and maintain the new world.

They defy the world they live in now because this is not the world that they will live in in the future. And this is not the world they signed up for. Many of their parents are shifting careers, providing them more autonomy, in order to support these children who are not responding well to the current educational system. Investigating and locating new solutions. Or many of you are creating a solution for yourself. (by the way, I help many of these adult clients find a new career path for this ‘New World’ that becomes more obvious after 2025)

However more often than not, countless of these parents/teachers/caregivers are struggling, they're confused, frustrated, tired, exhausted, and frankly feel completely lost. Below I will share a few characteristics of Chosen Children. But first I want to explain what exactly is Chosen Child, the Chosen One.

This is not an appointed position, it is not one that was granted to them. They have chosen to be the one-child amongst many, soon to become adults, to become a part of the change in our world. There is a galactic imbalance and the earth people are to evolve this and maintain symmetry. Many of our children will also be a part of this evolution.

You may want to listen to my video the great divide this is why they are not comfortable with the current system and why they oppose it. I will also share advice for all parents around children like this. I will also share astrological aspects in which you can tell whether your child is a chosen one or not. If you are not well-versed in astrology this will not make much sense to you. But for those who are interested, I thought I would share.

Characteristics of chosen children.

Strength or On Good Day

Practical outlook on life
Down-to-earth
Cautious and unlikely to be affected by others
Strong-willed and have the perseverance to overcome difficulties
Stick to the principle and discipline
Family-oriented
Modest. Responsible Reliable Grown-up

Weakness or on a Bad Day

Overly practical
Stubborn
Unoptimistic
Egocentric
Lack of romantic sense
Overly repress the desires too much
Overly focus on personal goals
Lack of care and enthusiasm for the public
Not good at communication
Unadaptable

What to Do

Source informs me to give them as much autonomy as possible. Remember astrologically I see mathematical equations, angles, and oppositions that communicates a language to me along with the celestial symbols. While the next layer is received through my consciousness and my connection to Source. Source is where I've received the information of the Chosen Child.

First off this child must be a significant part in navigating their childhood, treat them like little adults. Secondly, allow them to make decisions for themselves. Obviously, a parent has to protect their child in life or death situations. But simple things such as when to do their homework, brush their teeth, take a shower, walk the dog, or help out around the house are agreements that can be made without timelines. For example, it's a Friday, there's homework to be done for Monday; have an agreement and an understanding that you both comprehend, that homework needs to be completed by Monday. It is up to your child to determine when he/she/they/them accomplishes that homework. (btw words like goals, accomplishment, success are power words for them, use them when you can) And it is also up to that child to manage the consequences from the teacher for example if that homework is not completed. Likewise for example the brushing of teeth allow them to create the timeline that they would like and also for showers. Treating your child as an adult, for instance, if that child becomes confrontational, mean, rude, or hurtful setting boundaries as you would set boundaries as an adult to another adult. Either you would not respond to their forcefulness or explain to them that this is something that you don't tolerate and you do not accept this type of treatment. We seem to punish our children for this behavior but we don't use that same tactic for other adults in her life. So ask, how would I deal with this if it was a coworker, partner or friend.

Some children with strong domineering components will birth themselves to one or two parents who are also strong authoritarians. Or they birthed themselves into an environment, culture, or school situation that has an overabundance of superiority. The reason for this is that they may have an unbalanced level of dictatorship and therefore are learning what it is like to experience someone who takes advantage of their command, desiring that the lesson will be, that when they become adults that they would not take advantage of others in this way.

If you are the parent/teacher/caregiver of this experience you can teach the child at any age, even when they begin working, that learning from someone in command who is taking comfort in controlling others is something they may be discovering what not to do when they are in a position of power.

The Details-Astrology

In their chart they will have 2 or more of the below.

Sun sign in Capricorn, moon sign in Capricorn, Mercury and Mars and Capricorn. Strong Saturn conjunct or opposition to Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars. Pluto conjunct or opposition to Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus and Mars.